BABY SHOWER ANXIETIES- heeeeelp!

It’s making me sooo anxious that my mother or mother in law haven’t brought up the baby shower yet.

Who is suppose to plan it?

I have an invitation list ready to go and registries. I even have a list of “middle ground” places and prices.

I also feel as though I’d like to help pay and organize the shower bc my mothers anxieties are worse than mine and I don’t want her to shell out $$$...

My husband wanted me to put ALL our furniture and nursery items on it bc “you never know” but I can’t put together the nursery until after the shower! *end rant*