What is your timeline for telling people!?

I’m in total debate right now. Going to do my social media announcement on Christmas (12W) - this part isn’t under debate. But what about close family and friends? For my first I told my BBF right away and close family after my ultrasound.

But... in May I got pregnant and told them when I got a BFP and then ended up in miscarriage. I want to tell them because this pregnancy feel different then my miscarriage pregnancy however I’m so fearful because WHAT IF I end in miscarriage again?! 😭 I love my hubby but he doesn’t get excited/emotional so I rely on my brother and BFF for that support usually, hubby still hears it all he just doesn’t get things lol.

So spill the beans! What’s your plans?!

Also side note- it’s a huge burden to carry to not tell people and then if it does end in miscarriage having to deal with all that alone. Rant over.