I know this journey can be tough and can seem hopeless but I just want to encourage you all to keep going on your journeys. My husband has his VR last September and we had our baby boy yesterday. The process of wanting to have another child and not knowing I'd my husband wanted to, then he brought up the conversation to me about having another baby and then changed how mine a few times was heartbreaking but he eventually decided to get the reversal and we couldn't be more in love.