If a guy cheated on his girl with you, do you

I matched with this guy on tinder and we’ve been hitting it off for the past 5 months. We’ve talked almost everyday so far. He was in the same town as me for a month (supposed to be two) and so we met up, had a couple of dates and hooked up twice.

While getting to know one another we talked about our past relationships and what not. When we were talking about it, he made it seem like it’s been so long since he’s done anything relationshipy.

In July, he went back to the state he’s originally from. (Hundredsss of miles away) He’d tell me that he misses me a lot and wished that I was with him. He made me believe that we were seeing only each other. He even claimed to have told his friends about me and referenced me as “my girl”

After some lurking on Instagram, I found out that he shares his dog with a girl, who happens to be his girlfriend of 2 years.. I never even knew she existed. For the past 5 months, he was lying to me and leading me on..

I did give him the opportunity to end it because we were having communication issues at the end of September, but he decided to continue with what we have and try harder. He def put in more effort..

I confront him about lying to me and that I know about his girl, all he said was along the lines of “chill, we’ll talk” and then he blocked me. I ended up messaging him on another platform but he responded with “I love my girlfriend, can you please not message me”

That response gets me sooo upset. Lowkey sounds like he’s playing victim.

If he loves his girlfriend, he shouldn’t have been on tinder and go on dates with other people (he went on one other one besides me) and he shouldn’t have led me on so hard to the point it makes my heart ache.

I don’t have any intentions of hurting him or her, but the fact that he cheated and she’s in love with a cheater makes me sad. If I was cheated I would want to know. But I think she sees a future with him, so this makes it a little more harder.