Kind of lengthy, please give advice though! I married my husband two years ago and I have two children from a previous and he has one child from a previous. We’re supposed to go to TX for Thanksgiving this year but mostly we are going for the baby shower my MIL is throwing me for the child we are expecting. It was the initial plan for all of our children to stay with their other parent this time and for us to just fly solo for this trip for the shower. We already booked our flight, etc. except now they have invited my step daughter and offered to pay her airfare (which is nice) but they haven’t even extended an invitation to my two kids. This wouldn’t really bother me as much if it were a random trip and not Thanksgiving. I feel like if they are going to invite her, then they need to invite all of our kids so we aren’t spending Thanksgiving with just one my step daughter. Am I wrong for feeling this way? I feel like when I married their son, my kids should have become part of the family as well as I did, and now I honestly feel like not going at all because I think it’s rude they didn’t invite my kids but they invited my step daughter. Am I just hormonal??