so ever since my LO was born in 2016 i’ve been having issues with my SO’s parents (mostly his mom). so it’s like this, whenever we stay at their house for a weekend or so she’ll just take over and become his mom almost. like if we go out she’ll tell me what to dress him in, if i feel like it’s warm outside and he doesn’t need a huge coat she’ll get annoyed and say he does and make me put it on. then last weekend we went down and my sons bed time is 9pm. i walk into the living and she’s giving him CHOCOLATE at 9:30pm. the mind you she’s starting to make comments now. like last week she saw a popsocket on my phone and she said “what did your man buy that for you? bc he buys everything. mind you i’m a stay at home mom so i found that offensive. now how do i solve this? do i start being rude and stand up for myself? do i be nice and calmly tell her no? like what do i do lmao