I was venting to my cousin as my bff just had her baby and we started ttc at the same time so I’ve been in my feelings because of it and this is what she tells me....

“You’ve only been trying for a year, stop it”

Mind you she has 3 kids and is done having any (plus one voluntary abortion) so what would she know.

Considering my irregular cycles and possible pcos a year can turn into two, into three. That’s the last thing anyone needs to hear. That year long struggle has been very emotionally draining to me and has taken everything from within me. I’ve lost interest in the gym, don’t really do my makeup anymore (I am a big make up person) so the last thing I wanna hear is that...to stop it...there should be a guide book for what NOT to say to women ttc 😒😔.

Just needed to vent. And to all you ladies ttc, even if it’s been a few months or years. DONT stop it, if you need to vent, vent! Because no one but YOU knows what you are feeling and how much of a roller coaster this journey is...all the baby dust in the world to each and every one of you!!! 😘😘🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻