My mum sister and aunt decided that they wanted nothing to do with me when i got back together with my husband (we are very happy and have worked on our problems i want to make my marriage work and wouldn't want to be without him) I got pregnant with out third child. When i had a miscarriage in July and needed emergency surgery for blood loss my mum didn't want to know. Then last week they asked my dad if they could pick my girls up and I said no and have had a load of verbal abuse from my sister for it. The last time my mum had them she wouldn't let me know when she was coming for them or bringing them home even though i asked her to. I feel like they think they can just by pass me when it comes to seeing them. I then i find out that my mums sad because i didn't phone her on her birthday even though she's made it quite clear she doesn't want anything to do with me. They can't have it both ways.