Feeling stuck

So I'm from New Orleans, but I've been living in Baton Rouge for almost 7 years now. I absolutely hate it. I was originally here for school, but once I graduated, I decided I didn't want to move back unless I found a job back home (I didn't want to move back in with my parents). Well, I got lazy when I met my boyfriend. I recently gave birth to our first child. Now, I feel like I'm stuck here. It's mainly because my bf recently (with in the past few years) started to develop a relationship with his family. I don't want to take him away from that nor do I want to keep my baby girl from getting to know that side of her family. At the same time, I am not happy here AT ALL. There's not much to do, plus my family is in New Orleans. Living here has caused me to miss out on a lot. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I really don't know what to do....😔