Ok so I’m 19 and I started having sex when I was 18. so basically when I went to college and before I went to college my mom said if you have sex just use protection and I have had sex since then but I want to go to the gynecologist to make sure I’m alright down there . because I feel like I should. So should I tell my mom I’m going to the gynecologist and I’m having sex or keep it to my myself because I am technically grown? 🤷🏾‍♀️. I know if I tell her she gone tell the whole family and I don’t want everyone in my business.