How to deal with being unwanted by a man

I’m having such a hard time I feel like he is mentally screwing with my head. I haven’t been eating or sleeping for days I don’t have an appetite & I can’t sleep due to so many thoughts and sadness to the point where I wish I could disappear from this world

I’m so in love with him but there’s just nothing left with his feelings towards me, I’ve tried everything I do so much for him but I think over time Iv ruined our relationship with accusations, asking too

many questions being too much for him.

I really want to save the 1 inch of whatever we have left how can I do this? Maybe I should just leave him alone for a while so he cn maybe have some space n hopefully will miss me and come back? I’m so sad angry frustrated heartbroken it’s obvious that hes not interested anymore I don’t feel wanted & loved.

He barely txts me anymore I don’t know what else to do I don’t want to lose him but this is draining me mentally & I am not myself anymore I need peace I need happiness and this is like running around and I’m exhausted :(

Pls help :( how do u even deal with heartbreak Iv tried doing things to get my mind off him Iv deleted his number but he’s all I can think of and it hurts to know he’s not thinking of me

This morning I sent him a cute pic of myself and he just said thanks for the pic n that he’s getting ready to leave to work. Idk maybe it’s jst me, I over think everything

I want to send this txt saying “I get the impression that maybe you don’t want me to contact u , u only contact me at your own convenience when you need something , should I just leave you alone ? “

Should I send that or just delete and block him now n leave him alone I am doing too much on my end :(

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I'm not trying to be the Debbie downer but if a person doesn't want to be with you then they don't want to be with you. Trying to force something just drives the person further away. Just being real with you girl. Heartbreak sucks, I've been there, it takes time to initially "get over it" but at some point in your life you will meet someone who cares about you as much as you care about them.

su

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Absolutely do not send that text. He doesn’t care and doesn’t even deserve a goodbye. Just ignore him the next time he tries to contact you

Ad

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I’m sorry, please don’t stress yourself with him. Yes best thing is to block and forget. The more you try to reach out to him, the more he will push away.

El

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don't waste your time. you'll feel loved and wanted by the right guy because he makes sure you feel that way. this guy seems like he could give two shits about you.

Ke

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Just delete his number you’re only gonna hurt yourself more. Move on

민윤

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He doesn’t like you, he doesn’t want to be with you, you need to get a grip on yourself and move on

ch

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Listen hun earth is a big planet , there is over 2 millions other guys , who will love you and live for you ... why you are saving some inches of this bullshit ???

re

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Don’t send that. You’ve already come off a little needy, just move on, cut contact

Co

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I’ve been there. But if you know he’s going to go back to his ex once you stop living your life around him, he’s not worth it. You are better than this. You deserve to have a partner who gives the same as you. This asshole is draining your energy. I’m so sorry, I know it hurts. But like the others have said, you will meet someone who will work just as hard as you at the relationship and will make you feel loved, wanted and appreciated. Don’t let this jerk make you feel like you are less important than him. Good luck hun 💙

de

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Arrange to do things with other people, stop being so available to him. Guys like to chase and he doesn’t chase you as you are at his beck n call.