So I don’t know if this is a rant post or a brag post but either way thanks for reading 😂😂 Ladies don’t let a man treat you poorly!! Even if they are your soul mate. I went through this with a man who was my soul mate for two years. I finally left the abuse and looking back on it now, he was abusive in more ways than I thought. Each year for his birthday I would buy tickets to his favorite baseball teams game because they weren’t the home team and he was a HUGE baseball fan. I would get really good seats and everything. He was always ungrateful for that because it was something we could both do together instead of a gift he could use or something he really wanted(which was usually weed or video game related and expensive.) it was never enough and the three birthdays we were together of mine he didn’t even pay much attention to me let alone do a nice gesture for me. My current boyfriend recently had a birthday and I offered to give him money to go out with his friends since that’s what he normally does for his birthday and he hasn’t gone out since we started dating(his choice not mine.) He decline the offer and wanted to just stay home and spend time with me. So I took him out for dinner and we watched movies. He is currently planning something big for me for my first birthday spent together. It’s not about what they get you but the gesture. I’d be fine if he made me ramen for my birthday. It the thought of his trying to make my day special. My ex used to get drunk and yell at me and now my current boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am when he’s drunk because he doesn’t want me to ever doubt it. Yes it hurt at first when my ex and I split but better things came out of it. DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE. You may love your current partner but make sure they show you that you’re their world like you do to them. You’re all special so find someone who sees that and praises it as well. Sorry this is so long and thank you if you read to the end. 💙