My husband and I have been talking kids for about a year now. I know he wants kids of his own I have a child from a previous relationship but no matter what it doesn't happen. I have had 2 miscarriages and I know it's taking a toll on him as well as myself. To make matters worse I am so irregular it's hard to chart anything in regards to menstrual cycle and ovulation.... are there any tips out there to help me monitor when I'm most fertile without having to base it on ny cycle