I just had my second miscarriage a week ago and we have been ttc for 2 years. My sister in law (who is pregnant) knew this had happened. I know she probably thinks she was genuinely being helpful today but it was far from it. I woke up to a phone call at 3:45 this morning to inform me they were headed to the hospital to have a baby. Great, I was supportive even though deep down I want so badly for that to be me. She decided to text me every single update she possibly could because she “wanted me to know what the experience was, so that I could know what I’ll experience one day”. Really? I get that not everyone understands the pain of ttc and miscarrying but really? She has had her babies back to back to back and is getting her tubes tied this to round because it’s literally so easy for her to get pregnant, so I know she doesn’t get it but still. I know I should be so excited, but I would have been even more excited without every update of what she was feeling and what was happening.