Cleanup after sex?

Rose • 21 // autistic + disabled // nonbinary // queer🏳️‍🌈 // speaks french

How am I supposed to clean up properly after sex?? I know how to clean myself and my body, but I’m wondering about my sheets and stuff. I started having sex in September (in my bed) and so far I’ve been washing my sheets afterwards, every single time. (If my bed is made up and we stay on top of the blanket, I’ll just wash the blanket, but you know.) One time I was lazy and forgot to change my sheets, and when I was going to sleep that night I kept thinking my sheet smelled like vagina🤢😬 which reinforced my belief that I should wash my sheets every single time.

But it’s just? A LOT of work? And I’m starting to wonder if that’s what everyone does, too, or if I’m being extra/not doing something right. Like, I see women on here all the time say they have sex with their partner every day, or even multiple times a day, and it sounds utterly ridiculous to change your sheets THAT many times. So how am I supposed to clean up after sex??

UPDATE!!

Alright y’all, thanks SO much for your comments. I don’t know where I got the idea that I was supposed to be washing my sheets every time, that seems to be universally turned down so I guess I was wrong haha. It definitely is too much work so I’ll try just being less messy next time and see if I can stand not washing them! Thanks SO much to everyone for your help!💗