SORRY FOR THE LONG POST

So we told his parents almost two weeks ago still have yet for them to reply us. However his mother called his younger sister and told her she wasnt ready to be a grandma and I'm not really sure how I should feel about it . Ik she doesnt like me and that is fine she doesnt have to but I mean damn it will be your first grandchild . We live in different cities and I never really planned on asking her for anything because my child is barely formed and it will want for nothing . I guess my question is how do I go about all of this I feel like I should say something but my husband doesnt want me to but i feel like I should tell her she doesnt have to be in my childs life if she doesnt want to . I'm not begging anyone to do anything for me or my baby