From the ages 5 to 11 I thought I was a lesbian. I was only ever attracted to girls. Then when I was 12 I met this boy. I loved ‘him’ so much. I ended up dating him for 2 years then he came out trans. I ended up dating her for another year, then we went our separate ways. So I came out as pansexual. My family and friends keep telling me I’m confused but I like guys, girls and people who are or were both. That makes me pan.

I know what I want. I just wish people could be more accepting of it. It’s 2018!