Pediatric dental issues

Please no hate or judgement, I already beat myself up over this. So my daughters teeth are incredibly weak and damaged, her dentists think that it happened in utero and the damage (discoloration, too) was caused by antibiotics that I had to take. Plus, her father has teeth that aren’t the strongest so she was hit with a double whammy.

I’ve been taking her to the dentist since she was 9 months and we take care of her oral health as well as we can with regular brushing and such.

Today she mentioned to me that two of her bottom molars were causing pain when she chewed so when I took a look, I noticed a literal HOLE in the side of her molar. Her teeth have chipped away in the past so I’m not real sure as to how this happened.

I guess this is more of a vent thing since I’ve grown frustrated. She’s too sweet of a girl to have people constantly mention that her teeth are “different.”

My question is, has anybody or their children had poor baby teeth but grown to have strong, healthy adult teeth? I’m so worried that her adult teeth will be the same way. 😞