Husband and I aren't getting along since baby.

Sometimes I can not stand him.. seriously. I don't know if it's just because of the new baby and everything or what.

He works during the week, I stay at home with my daughter. I am now looking for weekend work because bills are getting behind. I'm currently sick with a sinus infection, so he tells me "wake me up at night for her feed and I'll get her" like he has numerous times before.

But EVERY fucking time I can hear him on the monitor huffing and puffing... telling her to come on. Stop acting like this. And then coming back in the bedroom telling me he don't know what to do cause she won't take the bottle.

Well first of all, we both been doing this for 12 fucking weeks. You'd think by now he'd know how to take care of our child. I tell him burp her. GIVE HER A FEW MINUTES.

She's not going to guzzle down the whole bottle in 10 min. She likes to take her time.

He has absolutely no patience and it's pissing me the hell off. We got into a terrible argument this morning over it because I finally snapped and told him he has no patience whatsoever. He laid her back down in he crib and told me to deal with her then since he's such a shitty father.

It got extremely heated afterwards & I told him he's acting like a shitty father because he just gives up and doesn't take the time to figure out wht she needs. I probably shouldn't have said some of the things I did but damnit... he's pissing me the hell off.

I never get any time away from her. I take care of her 24/7 & then when he offers to take care of her at night or for a few hour during the day so I can nap there is ALWAYS a problem.

Last week he literally woke me up from a one hour nap because she pooped and he "didn't know what to do, it's too much"

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Am I just being a bitch?

I know I need some "me" time desperately so im on edge. & this sinus infection is kicking my ass so that's definitely not helping...

But, is it me? Or what? 'Cause this is getting ridiculous. I've gotten to the point where I just do everything for her because I'm sick of hearing him complain. Don't get me wrong, he loves her to the moon and back. But he literally acts like he's retarded. Lol, no, I'm sorry. He literally acts like he can't do anything. It's like he has no patience or confidence in what he's doing.

I tell him all the time I don't know what I'm doing either. I've been at home with her alone since she was 1 week old figuring it all out on my own. Just winging it. You have to have patience, and practice and learn what works for her.