Sex while sleeping

This is kind of a bizarre thing for me to type, but I’m looking for some honest input and advice. My bf and I went on a trip, we’ve been together for 6 years and it was our anniversary trip. The first night we were away, he asked me to sleep in just my panties so I did. I woke up at 2 AM and he was kissing me and opening my legs and taking off my panties to have sex with me. I was coherent enough to kiss him back but wasn’t really sexually responding and kept falling asleep while he was trying to penetrate me so he left me be. Last night I felt very ill and weak and was falling asleep, had sweats on. I was asleep when I woke to him pressing his dick hard into my asshole through my clothes, it hurt but I was too tired to respond so kept sleeping. I don’t remember what else happened but when I woke up I asked him what happened and he said he was humping my asshole and vagina for around 20 minutes while I slept trying to get off. Idk why but that strikes me as incredibly odd. Any opinions?

EDIT: So I talked to him about it...he said that he was exaggerating the first time and that he only did it for 5-10 minutes and that he gave up and went to sleep and that he was trying to arouse me to have sex. I still think it was weird but feeling like he didn’t have bad intentions or at least hope not