Everyone is going thru something

Everyone in my life right now seems to be going through a tough time. I want to be a good friend and family member by listening to them and providing them with my help and support. But - my husband and I are trying for our first baby. I don’t want to tell anyone right now because it seems rude when they’re all having issues. Also- I don’t know if that’s even something you tell people? I’d love to just tell my SIL and my bestie but they are the ones having issues. Anyways I’m really excited and happy and have no one to share with so there it is! We want to have our own little family! 😊