I was 13 weeks when I lost my first child. I lost every ounce of blood I had in my body and receive transfusions until I had my DNC. This happened on Christmas last year, and I still feel like it happened yesterday.. the memory of what happened is so painful. Not even for me, for my husband who thought he was going to lose his wife and my step daughter who witnessed everything... we found out that I had a 9cm fibroid that caused me to miscarriage. They scheduled my surgery for February 14th, 2018. That’s when I found out I was pregnant again, but had lost it.. I was completely unaware I was pregnant but still... I felt so much pain that I lost another. Finally, after getting my blood tested for months to see when my hormone levels went down to 2, they finally scheduled my abdominal myomectomy for May 1, 2018. What was supposed to be an hour to 2 hour long surgery ended up being 5, but it was successful. I was feeling hopeful that I would be able to carry a child again. Now that we have the okay to try and conceive, we’ve been trying for 4 months now, and still no luck. It was so easy for me to conceive, and even my OB told me I was very fertile, but for some reason I’m not getting pregnant. It’s so discouraging and it makes me so stressed out. I don’t know what to do. I’ve been tracking my periods and when I ovulate. I take the ovulation test strips. I try to eat right and exercise and not stress too much. What am I doing wrong?? This all has been so hard for me. Can anyone give me advice