So I have been with my current boyfriend for 13, almost 14, months. He’s my first boyfriend, even though I’m 18. I’ve had a lot of problems getting over anxieties when we do anything, so it’s taken me a long time to be comfortable with doing some sexual things.

Over the weekend, I finally worked up the courage to give him a blowjob, and I was surprised how much he liked it. It was a first experience for both of us. I did come very close to a panic attack while trying to do it, but I was able to calm down enough to keep going. Let me make this very clear: I was not, in any way, shape, or form, pressured into this. I wanted to do it, I was doing it without him asking.

Anyways, the point of this post is to see if you guy have any tips for getting over anxieties related to sexual things and tips to giving good head. I want to make him feel good but I’m so clueless to what I’m supposed to do and what’s the right thing to do. Please, help a girl out!