Should we break up?

Question

I’ve been with my bf for over 2 years, and we live together. I love him a lot, but our relationship fells like whatever now. I rarely want to anything sexual with him, we hardly do anything together, I just feel like I’m being taken advantage of. He is always on his computer gaming or watching YouTube, and I’m either cooking, cleaning, or doing homework ( I’m a college student). 
He asked me to go back with him for the holidays, but I don’t want to. There’s nothing wrong with his family, they like me and I them. But I just don’t want to go. I’m okay with not being with him all the time. 
Idk I’m just confused. I love him more than anything, and I want to be with him, but it’s like something is missing.

Answer

Y’all need to spice things up. And stop cleaning up after him, he’s a grown ass man. You’re his girlfriend, not his mom.

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That’s life, and if you eventually want to get married, then that’s the raw, real deal. There are spots where it’s boring, and there’s not a spark. You have to make the spark. Relationships aren’t like the movies, You have to decide if you love that person enough, to stay with them during the boring stages.

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Maybe yal are just bored. Talk to him first.

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Sounds somewhat normal, like you've gotten used to each other & in a routine.
Both of you may have to make an effort to be in a better place with things. 
Maybe more space would be positive, so if you don't want to go see his family, don't go. 
And yeah, a lot of dudes are like that, they don't clean or cook that much a lot of times. I'm pretty much cool with it for now in my relationship. I kinda like controlling that part of things, but he'd help me if I wanted. Plus, I knew what I was getting into. When he has a lot if energy, he cleans, when he doesn't, he doesn't. I'm the same, so I don't knock it. 
I think you should start by asking him to do something for you and just reinforce it by reacting positively if he does it. 
Most people really do want to please their partner and have positive attention like that, so they'll do it more. 
If he won't make more effort along with you, then it probably will come to calling it quits.
As far as sex, I think, why would you guys be attracted to each other when nothing is new & it sounds like you two are kinda disconnected. You need to connect more emotionally and see each other in the positive ways that made you fall for each other, which is easier with independence or more focus.
Maybe try writing 5 things you are grateful for about him or that you appreciate in him a day for a while. It's so easy to lose sight of those beautiful things that make you desire the other person.
For example, I admire how emotionally strong my partner can be, even when odds are set against him. I admire what a sensitive, caring, heart he really is. 
If you can't come up with things that aren't tied closely with negativity, break up!
Then of course, trying new things in bed also makes sex more appealling. The more good sex you have, the more you want. 
In my experience, the more I respect & trust my partner, the more I want to bang them. That can take paying attention to the good stuff about them that could go unnoticed.

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