Hey guys. I am at a standstill. My family moved to Florida last summer and I wasn’t ready to go with them so I promised them this upcoming July I would move down there. They are renting a house with an extra Bedroom in it so I can come down. My little brother calls and tells me how excited he is for me everyday. I love my family my mom dad and brother. They are the best people. My plan was to spend a year in the North and come down after. But right after they left I met Jake. Jake is the best guy I have ever ever ever met. We have been dating since they left. His family loves me I go over constantly. He takes me out we have days where we sit in and play xbox or go on hikes. We want a future. I was in a relationship for three years and I never felt anyway similar to how I feel for Jake. My family absolutely loves him as well. He facetimes my 7 year old brother once a week to just chat and catch up. He texts my mom just to say hello. Jake mentioned the other day getting an apartment together next July when my lease at my current place is up. I told him I may be going to Florida. I hadn’t told him yet and he was obviously upset which I apologized profusely for not telling him I just was so scared he’d end it. I have been honest from there on out and asked what he would do if I did go to Florida. He agreed he would want to make it work no matter what and would be down to do long distance as long as we could stay together. He also said he wants to finish his two years left of college up north because he goes to school free there. I totally get that. So we would be long distance for two years and then who knows what would happen. The thought of staying up north which btw I love being up here I have a great job, friends, and boyfriend sounds so amazing and like a dream. But I also would love to be with my family because they mean so much and I’m so young that I want to take advantage of living with them while I can. I’m not even 20 yet and later in life I’ll have a home and live up north and be far away. Any advice on what to do. My heart is torn at letting either down. I literally can’t stop crying. I can be such a baby. Thanks.