Would you feel disrespected if your SO jerked off while you were home?

My SO does this often, although he doesn’t realize that I know. I’ve caught him in the shower. And just today i sat on the couch and the blanket was wet. he said “that might have been my doing sorry.” but like he never initiates sex and we barely have a sex life. We have sex maybe once a month if that... And I always have to start it. When he finishes it’s done. He does nothing to pleasure me..... Is it me that’s the problem???

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