My period is so late

Autumn

My period is 17 days late y’all... I haven’t tested since November 3rd and when I tested then it was negative, my period this month is supposed to come whenever it decides to show its face, but if it came in October it should show its face November 26th🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m stumped. I just want a positive test. I’ve been super tired lately and hungry. I plan on testing again at the end of this month and it’s seriously killing me not to test but I don’t wanna keep seeing negatives. With my first child I didn’t test positive till I missed my period twice! So that’s how I’m doing it this time around! And if my period doesn’t show I have an app with an obgyn December 18th!😩 anyone else dealing with this too?!