Do girls really have the same issues as their moms?🤔

We just started ttc this month. Been married 1 yr and almost 4 months, really wanted to wait to conceive until the due date would be after our 2 year anniversa ry, but I'm finally to the point I just want a baby. Curious though, did/do a lot of you seem to have the same experiences that your mom did trying to conceive? It always took my mom at least a year to conceive, and she had 3 miscarriages. I've always been told to expect the same struggles my mom had, and I'm not sure how I could handle the same things my mom went through. Praying I don't have to, and praying for those that are in that situation💔