Soooo idk if we are actively trying or just whatever happens happens...so I've been using clear blue advanced ovulation kit. I got my peak fertility days Nov.4 so we bd that day...unable to bd the day after due to conflicting work schedules...I am cycle day 21 and 9dpo...I said I was going to wait to test at least until I had a missed period...well that didn't last I tested today and got a BFN my breast aren't sore but very heavy, no cramping just feeling twinges in my sides, had one day with creamy white cm, and little more tired than usual. My AF is due Nov.17...praying to be pregnant but not sure if its symptoms of AF anyone with ideas or did I test too soon