Ok ladies, we've been through a lot together and I want some random people's advice: my husband is already talking about another baby. I'm pretty positive that I'm done. I'm good with 2 children. Part of that is that I'm really ready to start my career! I put it off a year to stay home with our daughter and if we were to have a third I'd want to stay home again which would be hard once I start my career. Plus, I really just don't want anymore children. I'm willing to say not now and not make a permanent decision yet but then the thought of birth control comes up. I'm exclusively breastfeeding so I don't want anything that would jack up my supply. Plus, I react pretty badly to most hormonal birth controls: I bleed like crazy and have major mood swings. Most moms don't ovulate that first year of breastfeeding, plus it took us a while to get pregnant and that was with supplement and tracking everything and actively trying. So I try not to worry too much about an accidental pregnancy this year and next year I won't have to nurse so if my supply dies out it'll be ok which means more options for birth control. But I worry so much because most breastfeeding moms have no sex drive and mine is through the roof. What if I do ovulate while nursing and we get pregnant and have two babies super close and either my career gets pushed off another year or I don't get to stay home with baby #3. It sucks. What advice, reassurance, anecdotes do ya'll have?