In my previous relationship my bf was very abusive sexually ... I would tell him no and he would continue you do whatever he wanted to me over and over ... I finally got out of that a year ago and now I’m

Talking to someone new .... every time we get close to having sex I have the worse anxiety attacks .. my body shut down and shakes and than I cry A lot ... he’s really understanding about my situation but I want to not be afraid... any advice???