Does anyone else’s husband/ partner say I hate you?

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Has anyone else’s husband ever told u he hates you? 
This was the last thing my husband said to me after a fight today and he’s gone out on a work thing. 
He’s never said it before and I’m worried that he meant it but I’m hoping he said it in anger.

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In my previous relationship, yes. 
My current relationship / fiancé - never. We don’t name call, no threatening of ending the relationship, no I hate you’s, nothing. Personally I’m a strong believer in manifesting and if you say it enough times t can become true - clearly did for my last relationship though.

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I say it my boyfriend sometimes when I'm really angry, and frustrated with him. But then after I feel really bad because I really do not hate him at all, and he knows this, and I have to keep reassuring him that I really don't. but when I get angry I can't hold back. 
talk to him when he gets home from work...

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Never, EVER in an argument. We know how to control ourselves, and what our limits are so we can walk away before we get to that point of losing control. (We really don’t argue much at all tbh, but I have faith in our ability to handle disagreements with maturity and respect.) We may have said it to each other playfully before. Like, he’s being a show-off, or gets something to eat that I think makes his breath taste bad, so I may have jokingly said I hate him. If I’ve done that, he knows I didn’t mean it (and the sarcasm behind it would have made it clear that I meant the opposite), and I would have followed it by kissing him, probably. But I’m honestly not sure if it’s ever happened or not.
If this was said in a fight, you’ve got to decide for yourself whether it’s something you’ll tolerate in a relationship or not. Assuming he didn’t actually mean it and was just way too angry, I don’t necessarily think it’s something to break up over (although that depends on your boundaries; if you want to end it, I’d respect that), but I would definitely sit him down and have a serious talk about what is and isn’t an okay thing to say to you, and tell him there will be consequences if he says it again.
You should never be reaching the point of being that angry anyway, though. When you feel things getting out of control, either one of you, you need to take a step back and agree to take some time to cool off, and continue the argument when you’re both in a better frame of mind. This is just a part of learning to be mature, and learning to have mature disagreements.🤷‍♀️

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Nope. If he ever said that I'd be straight out the door.

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No. My mom always taught me that you never say that, no matter how angry because you never know when or if that will be the last time you speak to that person.

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My husband and I would never say we hate each other...
We have, however said we hate something about the other. I have told my husband that I hate who is is when he is drunk. 
I think that’s very different than just saying, “I hate you,” in a heated argument.

Does anyone else’s husband/ partner say I hate you?

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