I thought we were on the same page but nope. Firstly I don't agree with letting a newborn baby cry it out. My child's case is a little different since she has a disease and we never know when she's feeling uncomfortable or in any pain where she had the surgery. It isn't over yet and she is yet to have a few more. If she shows signs of discomfort or unhappy I go and make sure she's OK. I wouldn't just leave her in bed by herself to 'process the day' because she supposedly had a long day. Who knows what she is feeling at the moment. He claims she's just fussing and ughh he seems so heartless about the whole situation. It just annoys the crap out of me especially as it was stems from his family in the first place, you would think he would have some sympathy. Nope, barely. On the odd occasion he'll comfort her and make a big scene in front of people but other than that I don't feel it. Ahh I just have to do my best by my girl no matter what. Sigh