Dislocations

Please don’t comment if you don’t know I don’t wanna get hurt worse so I have eds and my joints dislocate all the time anyone have anything they do to make the process of putting it back in less miserable I mean ik it’s terrible bone grinding on bone but anything you do other than grit and bear it? I do it everyday mostly my shoulders, wrists and hips but it’s just awful . Btw I’m 14