Ladies, I need some help. I’m young (19), at 17 I met the man (Not going to include his age because I don’t want that to be what everybody says is the problem, but he is older than me) that changed my whole world. He was so good to me. He made me feel safe, wanted, loved, heard, and important ... everything a young girl wants to feel, everything anybody wants to feel. In our short relationship, we’ve gotten married, had a baby (the hardest thing I’ve ever done), and now we’re pregnant again.

The thing is, he doesn’t make me feel the way he once did. I was told by a woman I trust so much that love is a decision, and everyday I wake up I decide to love this man. But I’m feeling more and more like he just isn’t in it anymore. I feel like he’s fading away and I don’t know what to do. I don’t feel satisfied, I’m trying so hard and giving this everything I have and I feel like I’m not getting much back. I’ve given everything I am to him and I just am at a point where I feel stuck and I don’t know what to do.

Sorry if this doesn’t make sense. I’m just a wreck.