My boyfriend fingered me pretty roughly a few days ago and I bled quite a bit from it possibly because he scatched me with his nails but since that happened going to the bathroom is extremely painful and there's a little blood when I pee. Idk if it's a uti. or if it's because of the rough fingering from a few days ago. Idk if it's something I should tell my mom or wait a couple weeks to see If it will go away. She CANT know I'm sexually active, so if I need to go to the doctor is a minor allowed to get in the room with a doctor alone? And if so will my doctor tell my mom about me being sexually active?