Private abnormalities (I guess)

So I like my body but am really insecure about my private parts. I don’t like my nipples or my vagina really. I don’t like my nipples because they’re the same color as my skin. And I dont like my vagina because I have a skin tag thingy. (Plus I’m an outie but that doesn’t bother me all that much) basically it’s hard to explain but I have a skin tag thingy between where I pee and my vagina. I don’t know but I know it’s not normal and I want to know what is normal and if it really matters if mine isn’t.