I’ve been on and off with this man for about 2 years. We met in college and have hung out numerous times. We hooked up multiple times- sex and everything. I’ve been super connected to him. He makes me happy. He admits that he isn’t the best communicator, which has affected our dynamic. I’m not sure if he is just looking for sex, or actually cares about my feelings. I’d do anything for him, and I see his true potential. I’m 22 and he is 25.

I’d love to hear some advice on how to move forward. Only nice/mature comments are welcome.

Should I continue to try for him, or should I let him initiate everything? I feel like I’m putting in too much work.