Question 1 that correlates to the first part of the polls!!!! : if someone is texting someone planning on meeting up and saying “I can’t wait to finally be together after all these years” and lots of “😘” and shit does that count as cheating? Let’s say they have never actually met up tho.. what’s your answer?

Question 2: let’s say they did meet up, cheating or no?

***MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION*** AND GOES TO THE SECOND PART OF THE POLL!!!!

Question 3: could someone PLEASE fucking help out rn. My mom might be cheating on my dad. Basically, I used o think she was flirting with another guy years ago saying “I love you “ and all this other shit. She told me I’m reading it wrong and they are joking. I partly believed it, the other half just wanted to pretend it was true.

Now it’s happening again. This time ik the name (not sure if it’s the same or diff guy) named Jim. They were texting flirty shit like in question number 1. Should I tell me dad?? Or should I find out more Info? Whenever I go to ask my mom she denies it all the time.

My dads, sensitive I guess I’ll say. I think he might be depressed too idk. But he’s health isn’t fantastic and he kinda sometimes relies on my mom on most things like paying bills, apts, keeping track of everything, etc. he’s finally retired after working so long and if they divorce, neither will have good finances, esp my dad. He would have to live in a mobile home or something AND work when he can’t physically or mentally take it.

My moms a nurse and helps so many people every day. She’s one of the most selfless people I know and genuinely a good human being. Plus she honestly my best friend and we are extremely close. If I tell someone this shit, my brother won’t ever talk to her again (which would honestly crush her soul and I’m not being dramatic here, plus she already has depression too) same with my dad obv. Everything she doesn’t deserve will happen. Except she is doing something awful. WHAT DO I FUCKING DO