Post birth tips!!

Second time mom but know whats to come and im freaking out!!! I absolutely hate wearing pads. I hate the feeling of bleeding. Ugh just everything about the after birth im not thrilled about. Any mommas got any tips besides wearing diapers to feel more comfortable, slow the heavy bleeding down or speed up the recovery process?! Im dreading this more than labor 😩😩😩😩 TIA!!!