Stressing..

Ruby

So we just found out that we are having a baby boy, so we’ve been thinking of names. Dad of baby wants mark for his best friend or everett for his uncle (both living they just both want him to name his next son after them) but I just don’t like the names.. I’ve always loved the name Xander but every time I suggest it some one says something about it.. I don’t know what to do should I just give in and let them take over naming my son or name him what i want and who cares what they say..?