We met in middle school, talked a bit in high school (flirted) and started dating after graduation. He had just gotten out of a shitty relationship 2 mnths prior. He was good two me. He joined the army, and I waiting 4 him. Fast forward he’s in AIT and he asks me to marry him. So we get engaged. (I joined army shortly after he did) we come back and I get messages from all these girls saying they would send him nudes and cute letters in the mail, I asked questions, he denied. Said they were all crazy. Fast forward 2 years later we get married. That same day we get married we get into a fight. He automatically starts acting childish. Bills were always 50/50 even tho he made twice what I did. And he never took me out. (He always bought video games ) after a while he started changing, being more friendly with girls, and being rude to me, telling me “why should I call u beautiful or cute if I already have you” I started hating him. I felt like a made a mistake. We both start working a better job together and money is coming in like crazy and things are the same.we get a place (to ourselves) and I had to buy everything, from toilet paper, to the sofa, to silverware, to a t.v. All he bought was a speaker and more games. And stuff for his car. I couldn’t stand him. He would leave me home and take girls in his car to car meets. So I thought.... lol I don’t need a man. I do bills myself and I set food on the table , cook & clean, plus I fixed up this place. I stoped loving him and I had so much anger because he wasn’t the same. After a while I told myself... marriage counseling. He said no. I wasn’t able to talk to him .... and so deep in me I knew it was done. I told myself 1 month. I make this bread and I leave, because I won’t stay with a man that doesn’t want to be kept. I’m not his mother, I shouldn’t have to do this, he doesn’t believe in communication nor in counseling. He wants to be single , so be it. And so 2 weeks passed I brought up the divorce and he said “were do I sign” he thought I was playing games so I said ok, and told him how I felt (again)& he left saying I was to much . From there on he started getting violent. He chocked me on the wall to get my keys from my car to go to work.... he would kick the door and make holes and I told myself noo lmfao. Bitchhh what isss youuu doinnn?! Lmfao so then I kicked him out (: he threatened to call ice on my family, and call the city to tell them I was living in a back house. I thought his shit out, changed the locks , got some pepper spray, said goodbye to his bitch ass, and went to court to file for divorce. 🤗 the enddd lmfao jk there’s more . Stay tuned on how the divorce is going from there . Let me tell you he’s one crazy son of a bitchhh. Good muthah fucking riddance