Has being pregnant put a strain on your marriage?

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Do you feel as thlugh you have gotgen closer or actually further apart for whatever reason? Maybe you have a low sex drive whilst pregnant or have been poorly or whatever.. if you feel as though you have drifted what are you planning to do to get that spark back once baby is here?

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My husband and I have grown closer emotionally but the sex drive.. it’s there.. sometimes 😂🤦🏽‍♀️ it’s difficult when you feel like a whale 😂

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I would say both but the reason for any suffering of our relationship is I’m sure due to my own insecurities. I don’t have much of a sex drive and if we do have sex, it’s usually pretty uncomfortable. And because of that my husband has stopped initiating but that then makes me feel like he doesn’t find me as attractive anymore (mostly because I’m the one struggling with my body). It’s a non stop cycle. But he has been so supportive and helpful and so excited about the baby so I have it really good! But also very ready to have my body back and get the spark back! I also think pregnancy can be a little lonely sometimes. As much as he tries to sympathize, he can’t fully understand how hard pregnancy can be at times. Plus my hormones make me crazy and I get on a downward spiral of thinking I’m all alone and it’s never going to end even though I actually know that’s not the case at all! Sorry for my long response..I guess I felt like getting all that out! Haha

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Thankfully weve grown closer. Hes amazing to me. He runs me baths, helps with dinner when I'm struggling and still holds my hair back and rubs my back while being so sick. We dont have sex as much as we use to but we still do 2-3 times a week so we dont suffer really there either.

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1st trimester we grew apart (no sex).. 2nd we were all
Over each other.. ( i started watching porn and told myself i am they sexy thin temptress) lol it worked and i dont even think about being pregnant when having sex. Lol 😂 35 weeks now its slowed down a bit ,2 times a week . Its almost over .

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It’s made me 10x more crazy we argue so much now.. but it usually leads to sex so it was cool.. but not I can’t have sex so I think I’m just a bitch I find myself having to apologize a lot lately for my bipolar behavior

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Grown closer ❤️

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Meh, hubby and I are pretty much the same lol... We're normally super laid back people that don't get phased by much, he's seriously my bff and we kinda just hang out at home together all the time... We're boring 😂

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The start has been rough but even though my sex drive has hit rock bottom, we have grown a LOT closer to each other. I was expecting the opposite to be honest cause he was never much into kids beforehand (I have a son from a previous relationship). 
We will see how things are gonna be when the baby is finally here.

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Both?! Because he helps more And goes extra mile to make sure I’m ok. But because I’m moody and hormonal some days I push him away or things we can’t enjoy like you said sex lol 😂 not his or my fault tho so obviously we come together at the end of the day but I say both.

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We’ve grown closer 😊

Has being pregnant put a strain on your marriage?

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