Why does he say that?

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My friend and I are really close (she’s a girl) and we always tell each other we love each other.. and we’re just very loving towards each other. Well go out our way and stuff like that..
But my boyfriend calls me gay and a faggot when i tell her I love her/ do things for her.. ☹️

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Because your boyfriend is an ignorant cunt and is obviously too immature to grasp that love and friendship between the same gender can be platonic.

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He says that because he's a jackass. Do you really want to be with someone who uses homophobic slurs?

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He’s clearly ignorant.

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He’s jealous

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he shouldn’t say f*ggot since it’s a homophobic slur and he shouldn’t use gay as a derogatory term. he probably say that cus he can’t comprehend that u can be emotional and close with someone that’s not ur s/o.

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Ask him if he thinks you're fucking your mother/father/sister/brother. When he acts all surprised that you'd ask that, respond in a ridiculously sarcastic voice "well I tell them I love them and do things for them too, so if giving a crap about my friend makes me a 'faggot' then I'm OBVIOUSLY into incest too."
And then dump his ass. Why date a homophobe? Imo if someone is that quick to dehumanize and disrespect someone for who they love, all I can do is wonder how long it will be before they decide it suits them best to dehumanize and disrespect me as well. And he's not just disrespecting gay people in general, he's already disrespecting you. He's trash. Take it out.

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Is he joking? Tell him you don’t like when he does it. I personally hate the word f** like I cringe whenever I hear someone say it lol my friend’s ex used to do the same oddly enough. My friend and I never said we loved each other but he would always tell her he was waiting for her to leave him for me 😂 both of us were like are you ok. He even told her he didn’t want me to come over HER house that she paid the bills in.

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I tell my best friend I love her. That’s my biiiiii. Luckily no one has said that to us because I’d be going off. Your boyfriend is just immature. Even if he’s joking that would annoy me.

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l get where your bf is coming from...

Why does he say that?

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