So I’ve really liked one of my guy friends for a while now but I’ve never been 100% sure about how he feels about me. He would make really subtle moves but never anything serious so naturally I’ve just been super unsure of it and I’m too nervous to ask because I fear rejection. Anyway, so finally we hooked up (we were both tipsy and got caught in the moment) and it was super intimate. Like extremely intimate. Like in missionary he went super slow and super rhythmically and looked into my eyes the whole time and we were even holding hands at one point.

I don’t have MUCH experience with sex or boys but I do have some and I’m just not sure what to make of the situation. I don’t know if I’m overthinking by thinking about the fact that it was so intimate might mean he feels a certain way about me or if it was just sex and some guys really just like to take it that slow. The aftermath has been really great, there hasn’t been any awkwardness or weird behavior so I guess I should take that into account too. What do y’all think?