Sex Advice?

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My boyfriend and I have been wanting to have sex for a while now. We are both 14, and I didn’t come here for a long paragraph on why I shouldn’t have sex because I am both emotionally and I think physically ready for this change. I have a problem though. I’m a very small girl and I’m kinda nervous if my boyfriend’s dick won’t fit my vaginal opening. And my parents don’t know I’m wanting to be sexually active and don’t have the guts to tell them. Any advice ? Thanks :)

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14?? Please don't rush into sex.
Be safe and make super sure that's what you really want.. I lost mine at a young age as well. Didn't even had my period when I was 14😂

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People are telling you don't for a reason. And if u talk to ur parents they will tell you the same thing. Not to keep u from having a good time. But from the emotional heartache sex can have on you. And it's not fun to go through.

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Don't. There's my advice.

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If you have to ask for sex advice at 14 years old then you're not ready to have sex.  You're still under the age of 18 and having sex for the first time is a big deal.   Don't have sex.   Wait a few years down the road.
You shouldn't also be afraid of telling your parents.   I lost my virginity at 16 and I told my mom shortly after that it happened and she actually didn't flip out on me nor anything like that.   She just asked if we used protection.   Parents are sometimes understand.

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Don’t have sex yet. You’re only 14, you’re a child! Just let yourself be a kid.

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i don’t know why everyone is so concerned about this.
 i lost my virginity at 14. it was absolutely great. i knew i was physically and emotionally ready. but everyone has different experiences, especially with this type of thing.  
i honestly don’t see anything wrong with it. everyone has their own opinions and morals though. but if you think you’re ready, i’d say go for it. always be cautious. use protection. (and no, the pull out method is not a good method of protection.) 
and if you’re concerned about your s/o not being able to fit, just try experimenting with things instead of jumping right into sex. maybe let him finger you first and slowly see how much you can take. foreplay is key as well. 
overall, don’t rush yourself. take your time and figure out what feels good for both of you. (: i hope this helped, hun. good luck 💕

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I definitely don't reccomend having sex when ur under 15... But If you feel your boyfriend is the right guy, and he won't just be using you, and you feel your ready, go for it. I'm also on the smaller side I'm 15, 5'3 and about 103 ish pounds. You want to make sure you do foreplay before you two fuck, like have him finger you so you can get stretched out a bit, and also get plenty wet so it's less likely to hurt, you could also do oral.  My boyfriend fingered me and ate me out  when I lost my virginity and it made all the diffence. You just want to relax if your not fully relaxed, your muscles are gonna be tense, and it's gonna hurt. And ALWAYS use protection. You can get pregnant even from one time of unprotected sex.

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I'm the same age and I felt the same way as you but I pushed though it and i had sex and I told my mom. At first she wont be so happy. I don't regret anything but make sure it's the right man

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If your in a place where you can be open with your parents, be open! If you have access to it, use lots of lube (it might feel really slippery, buh for the first time that’s honestly a good thing) and do a lot of foreplay. Take it slow and relax. Don’t concentrate on orgasming the first time, cause if you just enjoy the time your doing it, your way more relaxed and more likely to cum anyway! Good luck :)

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