My bf and I have been together for a year and see each other almost every day. We’ll sleep together about 2 or 3 times a week, but only have sex when we’re drunk or very tipsy, which means once every 2 weeks if I’m lucky.

We are so comfortable together in general, and are infatuated with each other. We playfight, cuddle and kiss each other all the time, but it never escalates into sex if we’re sober.

I don’t know what to do. I know he’s as shy about sex as I am, but it’s not like we haven’t done it multiple times