4 months and still won’t take a bottle

She has absolutely no idea what to do with them! We’ve tried a few different kinds but they’re expensive and at this point we’re wasting our money! I’m a SAHM so it’s okay but at the same time it means no one else can help feed her and I can’t go out with friends or anything because I’m afraid to be away from her for too long. It makes me feel like a failure! I plan on stopping at a year when we switch to whole milk but now I’m wondering how the heck she’s gonna drink that if she won’t ever take a bottle !?