What is wrong with me

Question

Ever since I've been losing weight I feel like my boyfriend not been wanting to have sex with me at all. I feel shouldn't have to ask and yet I tend to now and he always pushes it around or just cuddles with me at night and not do anything. and funny part is he's always say oh you'll get dick tonight don't worry about it. And I never do. I don't know what to do.

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just out of curiosity, is it a big weight difference?
but honestly, i would just talk to him and see what’s up. nothing is wrong with you!! communication is the only way you’re going to be able to not drive yourself crazy.

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He could be feeling insecure. Now that you have lost weight other men are noticing you maybe he feels insecure. Or he figures now that you have lost weight, he’s pushing you away because he figures he’s not good enough or he feels insecure about his own body now that you have shaped up. Honestly talk to him. Could be a lot of things, he feels threatened by other men Taking notice to you more now. See what’s going on. Gotta be something. Maybe you have excess skin and he’s not attracted to you. Or maybe he was into big girls and now that you aren’t he’s not that into you etc. Talk to the dude.

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Talk to him about it, even a small off handed comment can be taken too far sometimes.
When I first met my SO we hit it off and I wanted to make it official since we act like a couple all the time but he didn't want the title of having a girlfriend so I told him it made me feel like a fuck buddy and that's all. We went from sex 3-7 times a week to once every two weeks. Once I asked him why we weren't having as much sex, I found out it had nothing to do with attraction and was because he didn't want me feeling like he was just using me for sex.

What is wrong with me

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