My husband is wanting to go to his best friends 30th birthday party in a couple weeks. I’ll be 36.5 weeks pregnant and delivered my son (1st pregnancy) just at 37 weeks. The trip is by car and about 3 plus hours away and pretty remote area of our state, (sometimes cell reception is spotty).. normally I’d be for it but not sure at this point. Also, on a side note my husband turned 30 about a month ago and I wanted to take him on a 4 plus hour trip to stay in a cabin but he said I was in no shape to make that long of a drive and was being manipulative by trying to “surprise” him... we didn’t end up going. 😔 His best friend also didn’t visit for his birthday plans. My husband just told me recently he makes decisions with our best interest in mind... why doesn’t it feel like that at the moment? The decision to go I suppose is up to me ultimately but I don’t want to be resented. I told him to just go without me but he said he wouldn’t. I’m a bit upset about it all but mostly just concerned(maybe I’m the only one?😢) about the travel. What would you do?